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Is it easy to raise children

To this question, both simple and at the same time complex, everyone will give an answer in their own way. But education is the most difficult thing. The work of parents, educators, teachers, mentors is one of the most important in the world. Someone will want to argue with this, but you can't argue with the truth that it is in the hands of these people to create, mold a Personality, a Soul, from which the same person with a capital letter will appear. And already from him - a PERSON - and becomes a good doctor, a good researcher, a good driver, a good engineer, etc.How should children be raised, where to start, what principles and views should they adhere to in education? Lots of questions.... But I would like to remind everyone that without love, no one has the moral right to approach the matter of personality formation. A child at any age should know that he is not just loved - he is respected, appreciated, considered, treated on an equal footing.However, be careful! Love has the cunning to grow from a reasonable love, knowing the measure, understanding justice, into a blind, unrestrained, aimless love. Most often, the concept of "blind love" refers to parents, to parental overprotection. And this is the most terrible thing that can happen in the educational process. This is something that can, no, it can't, but it will definitely give sprouts of selfishness and irresponsibility.And that's when the irreparable happens. A child who understands and feels forgiveness, the ease of perceiving his own mistakes, will gradually forget how to understand human pain, even a close, native person. Gradually, the feelings of responsibility, empathy, beauty are dulled, the integrity of character is also spoiled by the influence of computer games, which are based on the presence of several lives. And this spoils the younger generation, brings confusion into their lives: after all, if an additional chance is given in the game, then it should be so in life. The reality of life is not separated in children and adolescents from the reality of computer (gaming).Another important factor in education is one's own example, which teaches so vividly, so significantly, without requiring words, explanations. Valentina Oseeva has a very short story "The Greedy Mother" on this occasion. It tells the story of how a smart mother raised her son. Since childhood, the child has been accustomed to the fact that even the smallest candy needs to be shared with a neighbor. From the outside, society regarded this as mother's greed. There were words of condemnation. But time has shown the true face and mind of the mother. It was not greed, but the education of empathy, empathy. Years later, having grown up, the son could not eat a piece of bread without sharing it with his mother. And people regarded this with the words: "She is a happy mother."Think about what has been said: the fruits of good upbringing are not immediately visible, and not everyone is able to see them. But a person will have to reap what he sowed. https://1vin.org.ua/novye.html
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